Everyone Deserves Support.

Including a Minor Attracted Person (MAP)

Everyone Deserves Support

"John" was suicidal. He had been bullied by trolls on social media for most of his life for being different. The bullies were primarily people who claimed, based on their  religious beliefs, that "John" was going to hell and deserved to die. They described how they would kill him on his twitter page and people supported their hate. Desperate for help, John sought treatment for his shame, depression, and suicidality. Although he was scared to share about himself with a stranger, he felt desperate for help as he had NO desire to harm anyone, ever. Once he shared about his attraction to children, his therapist told him, "I don't treat sex offenders."

First, let's be clear. "John" is not a child molester nor is he a sex offender. He has an attraction to children. He is also fervent about helping prevent child sexual abuse by speaking out against it and by showing his support of global child sexual abuse prevention programs on his social media. "John" deserves support as do others who have a minor attraction. After all, isolation and depression are known to increase one's risk of doing something they might regret. 

By the way, we have talked to "Janes" who are women who identify as anti-contact, non-offending pedophiles and like "John", they have no desire to sexually harm children. In fact, our first interview on our podcast, The Prevention Podcast™ is with "Emma" who is a woman who identifies as an anti-contact, non-offending female pedophile. Her commitment to keeping children safe by being an accountable woman in her community is inspiring.  

Anti-Contact, Non-Offending Pedophilia

Have you ever heard of the following words used in the same sentence: anti-contact pedophile? How about a non-offending pedophile? Some don't believe that a person who has pedophilia can actually avoid being a child molester or a sexual predator. But, it is possible. After all, this is an UNCHOSEN CONDITION. Just because someone is attracted to a child does not mean they are automatically going to sexually abuse them. According to Tenbergen, G., Wittforth, M. Frieling, H., Ponseti, J., Walter, M., Walter H., Beier, K.M., Schiffer, B., Kruger, T.H.C.(2015) in an article titled The Neurobiology and Psychology of Pedophilia: Recent Advances and Challenges, “From a clinical perspective, it is necessary to stress that there are pedophilic men who restrict their desire for sexual contact with children to fantasies only..." And, we will add, women. Kramer (2011), as cited in Tenbergen, G., et al (2015). addresses a point that currently many pedophilia researchers are facing: should we continue to classify pedophilia as a separate psychiatric disorder or as a sexual orientation, when patients harbor complaints not only of the preference but of the pressure under which they suffer? (2015).

For more information into the minds of men and women who have pedophilia and who have no desire to ever harm a child, you may listen to our podcast, The Prevention Podcast.™ You may also learn more by reading into the mind of an anti-contact, non-offending pedophile Ender Wiggen and others who write articles about their experiences living with pedophilia on

To clarify, minors include anyone under the age of 18 years of age. Therefore, some men enter our MAP program with distress, shame, and fear surrounding their attraction to pubescent children as well as teens. It is important to note, as psychologist and researcher Micheal Seto asserts in his article The Puzzle of Male Chronophilia(2016), “A sexual interest in sexually mature adolescents, though socially sanctioned in modern Western societies if under the legal age of consent, is neither uncommon nor atypical." We provide mental health and psycho-educational support for all MAP individuals. 

Having an attraction is not the issue; acting on one's attraction is. Let's get back to "John" who deserves support to address his suicidality and shame surrounding his attraction and to assist him in learning healthy tools for coping daily with his attraction. It is important that he be provided support instead of be shunned from society and labeled inaccurately as a sex offender. Everyone, including "John" is safer with support. 

Everyone is safer with more support 




Weekly Global psycho-educational call-in support group:

At The Prevention Project.™ we offer weekly psycho-educational call in group for men across the globe who have attractions to minors with no desire to cause harm in any way. We use a specific curriculum that includes shame-reduction/resiliency, positive support networks, levels and means of on-going accountability, exploring attractions, aspects necessary to live a relatively "normal" lifestyle within one's paradigm, and more.  Most participants use an alias to protect their identity. Individuals like "John" have benefitted from our global call-in group. Having the weekly support of group members who understand their situation as well as caring, non-judgmental therapists who are able to provide psycho-educational support helps everyone remain safe.  

Interested in being part of our MAP group? Email us! 

We currently have individuals who call in from the United States, France, the United Kingdom, Germany, Africa, Ireland, and Australia. 

We currently have individuals who call in from the United States, France, the United Kingdom, Germany, Africa, Ireland, and Australia. 

Peer Support: 

If you are struggling with minor attractions, including feeling scared that you may harm a child or if you have no desire to harm a child but feel depressed, isolated, shame, and/or are suicidal, there is on-going global peer support. While we offer weekly group and individual support by trained therapists, the following are on-line peer-support forums available 24/7. We know many men and women similar to "John" as well as women who are like "Emma" who have accessed the following peer support. Stay tuned for a women's only MAP peer support forum! 

Virped: This is a private and confidential peer support network for MAP. As stated on Virped's website, "This website is intended to reduce the stigma attached to pedophilia by letting people know that a substantial number of pedophiles DO NOT molest children, and to provide peer support and information about available resources to help virtuous pedophiles remain law-abiding, and lead happy, productive lives"(retrieved from website). 

B4U-ACT peer support: This is a private and confidential peer support network for MAP. As stated on B4U-ACT's website, "B4U-ACT provides peer support through a password-protected online forum where MAPs can talk with each other about issues related to their emotional well-being. These issues may include coping with stigma, fear, frustration, or secrecy, finding fulfilling relationships, working with mental health professionals, living within the law, or any other issues that may or may not be related to sexuality" (retrieved from B4U-ACT Website). 

The Prevention Podcast:

We are thrilled to have launched The Prevention Podcast. Our primary focus is on the prevention of child sexual abuse. Our podcast explores dicey topics intended to educate our global community on the necessary steps we must to take in order to prevent anymore child victims. Stay tuned for episodes right here on our site! 

Inspiring hope & change

This is a Tedmed talk by Dr. Elizabeth Letourneau who had the opportunity to meet with an anti-contact, non-offending pedophile. What she learned changed her entire paradigm as a professor and as a researcher in the field of prevention. Worth watching. Thank you Dr. Letourneau for inspiring hope & change! 

Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health Professor Elizabeth Letourneau has devoted her life's work to changing how people view child sexual abuse. In her 2016 TEDMED Talk, Elizabeth sheds light on how initiatives targeting juvenile sex offenders can be the best method to help prevent future offenses.